Monday 7 November 2011

Mother Teresa



 

INTRODUCTION


            Mother Teresa says, “I want you to go and find the poor in your own homes. Above all, your love has to start there”. This is how Mother Teresa begins theologizing in her life and the world around. She says, “The poor do not need our sympathy or our pity. They need our love and compassion”. Mother Teresa is very much realistic and need oriented. She knew well for what the world is hungry and also she could interpret the holy will of god. Mother says, “to love with a pure heart, to love everybody, especially to the poor, is a twenty-four –hour prayer”. In the Bible Jesus says that God has anointed him to proclaim the Good news to the photo liberate the captives and heal the sick. This is the central point on which I have based my assignment. I felt strongly that Mother had “Divine Revelation”. To begin the mission of theologizing from such a group that people of the world wishes of their none-existence.
            This assignment also includes Mother Teresa’s biography, Enculturation as an important element in her mission of theologizing in West Bengal and the world around. Mother also uses the stories anthologizing in her day-to-day life situations. This assignment also includes the Council Document to know the mind of the Church in spreading the Gospel in a particular context.


Biography:-
            Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu who later came to be known as Mother Teresa who born on August 26,1910 in what is currently the Republic of Macedonia, in the city of Skopje. She was baptized at the church of the Heart of Jesus on August 27,and the parish priest who baptized her, namely Fr. Zef Ramag, gave her the name Agnes, after sty. Agnes. St. Agnes was born in Rome in the region of emperor Diocesan (245-313), and in 304 she was martyred at the tender age of twelve or thirteen, during the Christian persecution.
            Her mother’s name was Dramatize Belnai(1889-1972) but she was called Drona, a word meaning “rose” in Albanian, and because of this she gave her daughter the name Gonxha, which means “flower bud”.
Nikola and Drona had three children. Their elder daughter Aga was born in 1904, their son Lazar in 1908, and in 1910 was born their second daughter Gonxha, who later became Mother Teresa.
            Nikola’s family, that is the family of Mother Teres’s father, managed a small inn in addition to his involvement in construction business. Apparently Drona’s father was regular customar at the Bojaxhiv shops and inn, for whenver he came to Skopje on business he would stay at the Bojaxhiv inn. It was in this way that the two families came into contact with each other, and later due to the intimate relations that grew between them a marriage was arranged between Drona aged 14 and Nikola aged 28.
            According to the official Ottomanrecords, the Bojaxahiu family lived in Skopje as early as 18th century. They lived in the centered of the city near the left bank of the Vader River, in a single-story house with large yard. In the yard were two shops and inn.




Inculturation: -
            Mother Teresa had realized that the Inculturation is one of the most effective instruments in theologizing.
Mother Teresa says, “there is no great difference in the reality of one country or another because it is always people you meet everywhere. They may look different or be dressed differently or may have a different education or position. But they are all the same. They are all people to be loved”.1
            Hiromi Josepha Kudu reveals that Mother’s attitude of acceptance and her non-judgmental approach towards the cultures, customs and religions of India, was the [1]key point in the success of her activity within the country. In particular, in her attitude of respecting the freedom of persons in choosing their own faith and never forcing the follower of a religion into becoming a Christian. For example, she did not baptize children of the Shish Bhawan orphanage managed by her sisters, because the children are adopted not only by Christian but also Muslim and Hindu families. She always kept in mind the welfare of the children, so that they may be adopted without resistance by families of any religion, and she also wanted to give them a chance to choose their own religion when they grew up.
            Hiromi Josepha Kudo, who conducted her first research from 1989 to 1992 and her purpose was to obtain material for her Master’s thesis in social welfare. Where she met Mother Teresa and she said to her:
“I am not a social worker. What we are doing is not work, but Christ’s love in action. So I think our work for God is not to be studied in order to write a social work treatise. The activity that we are doing is not work. Serving Christ in the poor is the same as Adoration in the chapel.”2

Once Mother Teresa said to Sister who had kept watch over a patient overnight without sleeping, “you have done 24 hours of Adoration”.3
Mother Terese and her sisters have a professional attitude overflowing with kindness, sympathy, and love, so much so that if they are not social workers, then we would truly have no one worthy to be declared a social worker, I feel that we theologians ought to learn many things from Mother Teresa.
            The priority of Mother and her Sisters was not social worker, and they were not social workers as she herself had stated, yet they were not active congregation either. Mother was sought serve Christ with perfect devotion wasn’t just Martha, but Mary (Elk 11:39-42). For her these two positions were compatible and in no way contradictory to each other, and so she strove  to put this idea into practice into her life .
            In her letter to Archbishop Mother mentions that God converse with her frequently and even after the revelation in the night train, he gave her directions. The following sentences are from the letter from hers to the Archbishop. It contains the words that god spoke to her. “I want the Indian nuns, victims of my love who would be Mary and Martha, who would be so very united to me as to radiate my love on souls.”4
            Mother Teresa, who hailed from a multi-ethnic city Skopje, felt that the first towards establishing good relations with people of different race and culture was to get a grasp of their language. Furthermore, she inclined to believe that the local people has built up a sort of psychological barrier against her, and she probably surmised that the mental distance to them would be shortened if she wore the same simple dress as they wore.
            Mother Teresa explained in her letter to the archbishop that she had received a concrete revelation from god about the establishment of a new religious congregation aimed at serving the poor, and also about the uniform of the congregation.. She says, “in the congregation girls of any nationality should be taken, but they must become Indian-minded and dress in simple clothes: a long , white, long-sleeved habit, light blue sari and a white vial, sandals, no stockings, a crucifix, girdle and rosary.”5

Nosra Aetate:

            Michael Gomes, who had freely lent a room in his house to Mother at the beginning of her activity in the slums, narrates that her greatness lay in her fact that she was a devout Catholic. However, he added that this did not meanest she disregarded other religions, for it was indeed true that she esteemed all religions. On his point he also remarked to Navin Chawla saying, “we cannot view her through Catholic eyes, or Hindu eyes, but only through human eyes, for she does not discriminate. She respect all religions and all people. It is not as if she is not a good Catholic. She is, but she does not make it exclusive.”6
            Hiromi Josepha Kudo quotes certain relevant pages from the Council Document Nostra Aetate, or declaration on the Relation of the church to Non-Christian religions, a document promulgated on October 28,1965.
“thus in Hinduism men contemplate the divine mystery and express it through an unspent fruitfulness of myths and through searching philosophical inquiry. They seek release from the anguish of our condition through ascetical practices or deep meditation or a loving, trusting flight towards God.”7
            Concerning Hinduism, Nostra Atetate states, “like wise other religions found everywhere  strive variously to answer the restless searching of the human heart by proposing “ways”, which consist to teachings, rules of life, and sacred ceremonies.
The Catholic Church rejects nothing of what is true and holy in these religions. She looks with sincere respect upon those ways of conduct and of life, those rules and teachings which, through differing in many particulars from what she holds and sets forth, never the less often reflect a ray of that truth which enlightens all man.”8
            The Documents also states, “ the church therefore has this exhortation for her sons: prudently and lovingly, through dialogue and collaboration with the followers of other religions, and in witness of Christian faith and life, acknowledge, preserve, and promote the spiritual and moral good found these men, as well as the value in their society and culture”.9 The church therefore recognizes the value of other religions and positively encourages dialogue and collaboration.

Charity Begins Today:-

            Mother beloved in immediate action. She was a doer, not a preacher. She would often say:
Charity begins today. Today somebody is suffering, today somebody is in street, and today somebody is hungry. Our work is for today, yesterday has gone, and tomorrow has not yet come. We see a need, we go to meet it; at least, we do something about it.
‘a women came with her child to me and said, “Mother, I went to two or three places to beg food, for we have not eaten for three days but they told me that I was young and I should work and earn my living. No one gave me anything.”
I went to get some food for her and by the time I return, the baby in her arms had died of hunger.
‘we will not have them tomorrow if we do not feed them today. So be concern about what you can do today.’10



The courage to give:

            Groups of individuals flocked to Mother and asked her how they could help her in her work among the poorest of the poor. Mother always told them that their families cane first and so, before she directed them to work in anyone of  her homes, she would spend time talking to them about their families and neighbors.

I want you to find the poor, right in roar home first. And begin to love there. And find out about your next-door neighbors. Do you know who they are?
She told them her own most extraordinary experience of love of one’s neighbor shown by a very poor Hindu family.
            A gentleman came to our house and said :Mother Teresa, there is a family with eight children who had not eaten for sometime. Do something to them.” so I took some rice and went there immediately. And I saw the children- their eyes shining with hunger. I do not know if you have ever seen hunger. It is terrible thing- the look on the face of a hungry person- but I have seen it very often. The mother of that family took the rice from my hands and divided in two. She took half of it and went out of the house. When she came back, I asked her: “where did you go? What did you do?” and she gave me a very simple answer: “they are hungry also.”
“what struck me was that she knew that the next-door neighbors were hungry, too. And who were they? A Muslim family. I was not surprised that she gave, but I was very much surprised that she knew, because as a rule when we are suffering, went we are in trouble, we have no time for others. Yet this mother knew and had the courage of her love to give.”11




If I had just passed by:-

            “I could not have been a Missionary of Charity,” Mother Teresa told to her sisters, “if I had passed by when I saw and smelt that women that who was eaten up by rats-her face, her legs. But I returned, picked her up and took her to a hospital. If I had not, the Society would have died. Feelings of repugnance are human but if I see the face of Jesus in his most distressing disguise, I will be holy.” 12

Saint of the slums:-

            Mother Teresa went to work in the slums in 1948. there after she and her sisters became familiar figures in some of the most depressed and deprived areas of the world. I the early years, she had no car of her own and used the public transport system. Until she allowed herself to be dissuaded from doing so for reasons of health and age, Mother often used to walk to her place of work in the slums and ghettos of the world. She herself was very observant and would exhort her sisters: “open your eyes and see.”
This is a story she vividly remembered and often repeated:
            I will never forget one day I was walking down the street and saw something moving in the open drain. I removed the dirt and found a human being there. He had been by worms and after we had bought him to our house, it took us three hours to clean him. And this man-who lived a such a terrible life of suffering in that open drain said: “I have lived like an animal in the street, but I am going to die like an angle, loved and cared for.” And just as we were still praying with him, praying for him he looked up at the sister and said, “ sister I'm going home to God”, and he died. There was such a wonderful, beautiful, smile on his face. I have never seen a smile like that.
            It was so wonderful to see the greatness of a man who could speak like that without complaining, without cursing. Like an angel! This is the greatness of people who are spiritually rich when they are materially poor.”13
Open your eyes :-
            Mother’s friends and followers were drawn to her from all workers of life and religious. Speaking to a group, which she knew had never felt the pangs of hunger for food, but perhaps silently suffered the hunger for love, she told about this experience, which had greatly moved her.
“None of us know what is the pain of hunger, but one day I learnt it was a little child. I picked up the child from the street. He was just six year old. I could see from his eyes that he was very very hungry. I have seen that terrible hunger in many eyes. I gave him a piece of bread and instead of eating it as fast as fusible, he started eating it crumb by crumb. I said to him: “eat, eat the bread, you are hungry,” and that little one looked at me and said, “I am afraid that the bread will be finished and I will be hungry again.”
“ That little one already knows the terrible pain of hunger which you and I may not know. That is why I say: open your eyes and see, for there is hunger not only for a piece of bread; there is hunger for understanding love, for the word of god”.14

Let God make plans:-

            Now that the bishop had broken the ice, he confided in Mother. He had to write an article for a paper on the future of the Catholic church. Would there be women priest? Would priest be permitted to marry? To the first question Mother said, “Jesus did not make his mother a priest. If he did not make women priest, why should we? And as for the future of the church, Mother said, “the future is not in our hands. We have no power over it. We can act only today.” She quoted a clause from the constitution of the Missionaries of charity:
“we will allow the good God to make plans for the future- for yesterday has gone, tomorrow has not yet come and we have only today to make Him known, love and served.”15

An Indian by choice:-

            It was possible to speak to Mother about anything and everything and not shock or surprise her. lesser mortals might even have been indignant at some of the questions Mother was asked, but Mother, never. She answered with a smile even though she was often aware of the provocation.
            In 1979, the year Mother won the Nobel prize, many organizations, governmental and non-governmental, held meetings to congratulate her. In Calcutta, her own city, the west Bengal government convened an open-air civic reception in her honor. The chief minister presided. Television crews from several countries and hundreds of photographers and journalists were constantly shooting the chief guest.
            After the meeting, a journalist said: “ mother, you must now consider yourself as a citizen of India.”
Another media person took her up on her answer, “ do you really consider yourself an Indian?”
            The small sari-clad figure wrapped in an oversize navy blue cardigan replied, “yes, and I feel India to the most profound depths of my soul but there is a difference.” An addressing the Indian gentlemen who had posed the question, she said: “you are an Indian by accident (of birth); I am an Indian by choice.16




The last word :-

            In Japan, as elsewhere in the world, Mother Terese spoke about the vocation of hundreds of young women who left their homes and joined her order. This thought may have been uppermost in Mr. Hideki Izumi’s mind when he asked her a question about her family. Mr. Izumi began by telling Mother that he had two daughters, one aged eight years and the other thirteen, and he would be very unhappy if one of them entered religious life.
            Mother said: “a vocation is not the work of human hands. A vocation is between God and your daughters…” and added, “ if you have two, you must pray that God will call one of your daughters to belong to him. That is the greatest gift of God to a family…if God calls your son or daughter to come to His service you are blessed.”
            Mother added, “ I too had a very happy family. And it was very difficult for my mother to give me, but she did. This is the sacrifice. Say if your daughter gets married and goes away, you will have to give your daughter all the same. So, instead of giving her to others, you give her to god. This is the difference. We have in our congregation thirty-five nationalizes. We are over two thousand sisters.”
With a twinkle in her loving blue eyes she had the last word, “ so, two thousand and one!”17







Mother wants me:-

            To volunteers in rich countries, Mother Teresa would speak of another kind of poverty-poverty of spirit. She said, “ there is homeless not only of people sleeping in the streets of Calcutta, Rome and many other places including San Frsnsco, where it is said that about five thousand people sleep in the streets at night. It is not only of that kind of homeless, being unwanted, unloved and uncared for. We lived in a throwaway society. And we have so many people who have been thrown away.
            I will never for great a little child who came knocking on our door around midnight, crying at the top of his voice and saying: “ I went to my father, my father did not want me, I went to my mother, my mother did not want me. Do you want me Mother?
Naturally I wanted him very much, for that little one was so hurt.”18

Give it up:-

            Women from Rajas than came to me, said Mother, and with tears complained, “ I have a child who is three years old but cannot speak.”
“ I asked the women, “ is there anything that you like very much that you could give up?” she answered, “yes, betel-nut; I chew the betel-nut the whole day.”
“well,” I told her, “ give up betel-nut chewing. Offer as a sacrifice to God. You ask for a big favor, give something in exchange.”
Mother said that the sacrifice of the lady from Rajas than bore fruit. She returned to thank Mother and said, “ now the child can speak.19









CONCLUSION



            Mother says “the world never needed love more than today.”
Mother was wise enough to read the signs of modern times and act accordingly. She knew how poor and rich both are hungry for love, hungry for God. So, her starting point is from the poorest of the poor. Mother used to say, “ though we do lots of social activities but we are not social workers. We do for Christ.
I feel that her theologizing is unique and concrete one. She could reach Christ to every people those who were thirsty for God.
            One may ask, why Mother likes to tell the real stories to the people while she was sharing her faith? I feel the answer is, “…to you it has been given to know the secrets of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it is not given.” (Matthew 13:11).
Mother says, “Every work of love, done with a full heart, always brings people close to God.” Therefore her ways of theologizing is unique and the modern theologians have to learn how to bring people close to God from the simple looking but great works of Mother Teresa.


[1] Moulthrop, G. Hammer, “thoughts to inspire and celebrate,” Mumbai: Jaico Publishing House, 2003,
p.37.
2 kudo, H. Josepha, “Mother Teresa:  A  saint from Skopje”, Gujarat: Gujarat Sahitya Prakash, 2006, p. 84.

5 Ibid, p. 97.
6 Ibid, P. 164.
7 Ibid, p. 167.
8 Ibid, p. 167.
9 Ibid. 168.
10 Joly, E. Le, “Reaching out in love,” New Delhi: Penguin Book India ltd., 1998, p. 24.
11 Ibid, P. 21.
12 Ibid, P 8.
13 Ibid, P. 3.
14 Ibid, P. 36.
15 Ibid, P. 49.
16 Ibid, P. 52.
17 Ibid, P. 62.
18 Ibid, P. 67.
19 Ibid, P. 97.

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